i went to "shao mu" this morning... nearly died-ed... i dint manage to have ample sleep and worst of all the weather is super super super HOT!
we received notices that our grandparents area is going to be demolished soon... if we wants to choose to place the urn in a specific location we have to pay more and it costs at least a thosand or so... the contractor says retrieving of the bones has to be done in the night... cos "corpse" cannot be exposed to sunlight... (reminds me of the show eye 10) and the sad thing is if there isnt anything to be found they would take those mud beneath the grave as representative... it would be v gross if they really can find some of the remaining... will there be maggots? opps... cos all the body was buried for over 30 years.... the contractor also mentioned that close relative have to be present to pay respects and the priest will chant some prayers... it would be an eye opener if i can participate in the ceremony.. i doubt my mum allows... anyways, i realise there many pattern of graves... there are tall tall ones, round round ones, some left unattended... some even with a tree on it.... opps why am i talkin about graves here...